Start Talking About Opioids
You can be the one to keep the people you care about safe. It starts with real talks. It is easy to think that people won’t listen. But they do. Real talks about opioid use with the people in your life is an opportunity to provide real help. Don’t worry, it is easier than you think. Let’s us show you how to prevent opioid harm with real talks.
What Are Real Talks?
Real talks are open and honest conversations on opioids and their harms with your family, friends, coworkers, and other adults. They can happen anytime, anywhere. Real talks recognize that our environments and experiences shape our lives. Different people and populations in our state face challenges based on the conditions in which they are born, grow, live, and work. Understanding the impacts of these challenges on a person’s overall health and wellness and meeting the person where they are at in their journey are important to having meaningful real talks.
Keep it casual and in an appropriate time and space:
All you need to do is take a moment to think about what you want to share with the person before diving in. Consider a private setting with limited distractions where you and the person will feel comfortable, such as at home or on a walk.
Listen to what is said:
Show the person that you’re interested in what they have to say. Give them your undivided attention. Listen both to what they are saying and also to what they are not saying. Acknowledge their feelings. Try to understand their perspective.
Offer support not judgment:
Take a pause before responding to what is said to think how you can react with compassion. Instead of reacting, think of a question you can ask them: about their experience, their feelings, or their support network. Remind the person that you’ll always be there for them and why you are glad they are in your life.
Stay Connected
Helping a person doesn’t happen overnight. Continue reaching out with offers to listen. Invite them to activities. Encourage them to talk to a health care professional, spiritual advisor, or other friend or relative if they don’t want to talk with you.
What to say
There are many ways to start a real talk. Focus on your concern for the person. During a real talk, when responding to answers, remember that simple, encouraging feedback goes a long way in showing support.
Here are some examples of what you can say:
“I’ve been worried about you. Can we talk? If not, who are you comfortable talking to?”
“I see you’re going through something. How can I best support you?”
“I care about you and am here to listen. Do you want to talk about what’s been going on?”
“I’ve noticed you haven’t seemed like yourself lately. How can I help?”
“I haven’t heard you talk much about the hobbies you enjoy. Have you done anything fun lately?”
“How is everything going in your personal life? I haven’t heard you talk much about your friends lately.”
“You’re not alone, even if you feel like you are. I’m here for you, and I want to help you in any way I can.”
“It may not seem possible right now, but the pain you are experiencing can get better without opioids.”
“I might not be able to understand exactly what you’re going through or how you feel, but I care about you and want to help.”
Your Words Matter
Say use (illegal drugs)/misuse (medications used other than prescribed) instead of abuse.
Say opioid use disorder instead of habit.
Say person with an opioid use disorder instead of addict, user, or junkie.
Say person in recovery instead of former addict.
Say person who previously used opioids instead of reformed addict.
Say in remission or recovery instead of clean.
Concerned about someone’s well-being?
Call 211 or 1-833-944-4673
The Wisconsin Addiction Recovery Helpline can help you find local services and support. It’s free, confidential, and available 24 hours a day.